Appease

the past few days were rough and tough, a challenge that test your patience and tolerance level. ahhh...i'm suppose to finish up my econs tutorial but heck!

It all started with misunderstandings, leading to conflicts and blah blah blah...

you see, very often in life, we misunderstand people, their words their actions even their thoughts (if you can read their mind) haha!!! so often that we live with doubts unclarified, unsettled, staying unclear of the situation, then we make judgements based on uncertainties. Then we go unhappy cos it goes round and round when both parties never get fed up with their own feud, unable to put down that devastating ego. Sometimes, it just takes a cup of coffee, 30minutes and 2 mouths to make everything wonderful again. So if you're doubting someone or misunderstood something, talk it out, lay everything on the table and step by step, clear things up! =]

Secondly, (oh btw, my econs tutor once told me not to number the points in the essays as in firstly, secondly, cos Cambridge ain't that stupid, they can COUNT!!! haha) well well, somethings when people agitate you, do not retaliate immediately, because it is not wise to do so. like i mentioned in the previous paragraph, it goes merry-go-round and round and round!!! it never ends, its like war, powerful men have very big ego, and because of that they sacrifice their people for the sake of meaningless victories. now why sacrifice yourself in a meaningless feud? When others joke about you, mock at you, hold that breath, breathe no fire for it is not worthy of anger nor violence, the point of agitation is retaliation which further give the other party to carry on their laughter and mockings. So i guess we have to learn how to stay low and let bygones be bygones, do not be mindful of what others mock at you about but be mindful about your self-worth and who you are, for you are a man before God, and to do so, you love your enemies, even if that means death? i dunno, but now its not that serious afterall nothing concern with death. =] hehe...

Thirdly, i guess sometimes your perspective and impression of people are affected by peer pressure. its like a collective moral value thing, if majority thinks this is right, then it must be right. Agree? if majority thinks he is a fucker, then he is a fucker. You might be swaying from stand to stand, unable to stand up to voice out the false but you lack evidence, you lack the familiarity. You do not know that person and you subject him to "death". Nonsensical isn't it? haha!!! well well, when you judge, have a clear and open mind, and judge not based on hearsay but on solid evidence. Friends and Boyfriends or Girlfriends are different. Some might be excellent friends but lousy girlfriends so you might hear two different stories. But you have to seek a balanced viewpoint and be sure of what relationship you are seeking. dunno dunno

Thanks Samuel and RongKang
the world has become a better place.
haha my appeasement policy is good!!! thumbs up!!!